Monday, November 2, 2009

Sometimes because of pride or ego or a mistaken idea, one person may not confide in another or tell them the whole truth. Have you ever been in a situation in which you didn’t want the other person to know something about you? You had something you wanted to keep secret? How did you act? Did the other person realize you were hiding something? How did your behavior change the way they acted toward you?

It has happened to me alot. I dont really think im going to tell you about the situations that have occured because well other people can read this. It is kind of hard when you do not want someone to find out something about you. I will explain why its hard and the way it can effect your attitude.

Well when i dont want someone to know something about me i act kind of different around them. I try to avoid subjects that could bring up the thing i dont want to know. I sometimes just dont talk around them that much because i dont want it to accidently slip out. Sometimes people can just tell if im keeping a secret from them so they confront me about it.

If they ever find out they kind of do act different around me. It depeneds on what it is though. Sometimes they get mad and keep things from you to make it even. Sometimes if it is just a stupid little thing that if they found out wouldn't change anything it just embarresses me they, they tend to tease me for not telling them or they just forget about it. So in a way i should always try my hardest not to keep things from people because it could end up getting people mad at you.